I’m Michael Holler,
I help couples overcome and resolve relationship problems and achieve successful relationships so they can pull their marriage back from the brink of divorce.
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How To Save Your Marriage –
A Simple Path for Couples to Pull Their Relationship Back from the Brink of Divorce
Hi, I'm Michael Holler
Even though we haven't worked together yet, I bet I know a few things about you...
- You very much value your marriage, but you have lost your way in trying to fix it.
- You're floundering around, perhaps unaware that you are repeating the patterns of marriage and relationships that you saw from your parents and/or grandparents that did not work.
- Â You don't know how to argue, but you sure do know how to fight. And you don't know the difference between the two.
- You do not have good, emotional regulation or conflict resolution skills.
- You can't calm yourselves down long enough to rationally work your way out of conflicts.
- You tend to react rather than act when in conflict.
- Each conflict seems to damage the relationship and you can't get it back the way it was.
You’re Not Alone…. And There’s A Better Way!
- I'll help you develop an understanding of both your personality and coping styles, and how they affect your marriage.
- Learn the concept of "emotional regulation" in a way that has you work together to solve problems instead of fighting unproductively.
- Learn a proactively communication process that deescalates, without the need to fight for 20 years before you learn to establish it.
-  Enhance your social–emotional regulation skills utilizing tools that bring structure and predictability into positive relationships.
- Learn how to build a relationship contract, that gives both of you a clear picture of what you need, what you want, and how to give it to each other –– a contract that both of you agree on –– consisting of mini-contracts or subcontracts that work and can quickly be set up and integrated – because life is so ridiculously busy.
- Learn how to integrate a new and highly functional communication model that can prevent fights from happening before they even occur.
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You Could Be On The Road To These Results Just A Few Months From Now.
How is This Possible ?
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A Simple Path for couples to Pull Their Relationship Back from the Brink of Divorce
How To Save Your Marriage and Pull It Back from the Brink of Divorce with Simple Tools that can be Quickly Integrated, and Implemented into your Interactions
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- Develop an understanding of both of your personality and coping styles, and how they affect your marriage.
- Develop good "emotional regulation" in a way that helps you work together to solve problems instead of fighting unproductively.
-  Learn how to enhance your social–emotional regulation skills utilizing tools that bring structure and predictability into positive relationships.
- Learn how to build a relationship contract, that gives you a clear picture of what you need, and what you want, and how to give it to each other that both of you agree on –– consisting of mini-contracts or subcontracts that work and could quickly be set up and integrated – because life is so ridiculously busy.
- How to integrate a new and highly functional communication model that can prevent fights from happening before they even occur.
Let me introduce
My Background
After 40 years of a career in mental health counseling, specializing in working with couples and relationships...
I Noticed Something...
The foundational models with which I was trained combined with evolving, modern researched information, when applied to the couples with whom I worked, started showing significantly more success than couples working with more main stream clinicians around me.
Couples who learned my unique set of relationship tools knew exactly what to do when problems arose. When conflict occurred they knew how to communicate about it and what to do about it, so that they didn't feel so helpless in the face of conflict, and no longer perceived conflict as threatening to the relationship. They also tended to be interdependent, (rather than co-dependent), in that they acted together on the same principles – in effect, using the same language together to quickly resolve and de-escalate conflict.
Thus, the process of resolution became a familiar thing.
